Synchronicity? Or is it just a coincidence?
Enter The Law Of Attraction.....
What is synchronicity?
According to Psychology Today synchronicity is a phenomenon in which people interpret two separate—and seemingly unrelated—experiences as being meaningfully intertwined, even though there is no evidence that one led to the other or that the two events are linked in any other causal way. Though many people perceive signs or spiritual meaning in synchronistic events, most scientists believe that such events are more likely coincidences that only seem meaningful due to aspects of human thinking such as confirmation bias.
According to me, synchronicity is the unexpected spice of life. You know that spice, the one the dances on your taste buds when you are least expecting it. This is a moment of sheer delight. This is a moment of, perhaps, of coincidence where many beautiful gifts unfold.
As I look back on my life, there are so many coincidences that seem unfathomable to the naked eye and thinking mind. When we try to navigate our lives with a logical and rational brain, synchronicity is not a possibility. When we guide our lives with faith, intuition, and creativity synchronicity is unleashed.
Why do certain people come into our lives? Why are we drawn to a situation that we have no place being? Why are we struck with ideas and then-poof- they magically appear in front of our very eyes?
My friend, Michael Losier, author of the international best-seller, Law of Attraction sat on Oprah's stage and spoke to the power of these unexplainable events. Losier simply taught the lesson that when our thoughts, our minds, and our actions are all aligned we receive results. We may be the recipient of meaningful whispers from the universe. Or we may be knocked down to our core with powerful and unexplainable events. Michael, in his signature training bravado, speaks and lives by the power of this intangible law. In fact, Oprah was so enthralled, she invited him on her show four times which led to an opportunity of a lifetime. Michael hopped on a plane from British Columbia and took the reigns as a HARPO superstar hosting a show on the Oprah radio network.
Was Oprah's invitation a coincidence, or were Michael's thoughts, actions, and words all aligned to manifest this one opportunity? Ultimately, it is for you to decide.
Why was Michael Losier, a native of Victoria, BC,
cherry-picked by Oprah herself to be the expert on the Law of Attraction?
Michael's ground-breaking book questions those moments of happenstance that have no true foundation in critical thinking. Have you noticed that sometimes what you need just falls into place? Perhaps you've met the perfect client or life partner merely by being at the right place at the right time. On the other hand, there are some people who find themselves in one terrible relationship after another or who seem unable to shake off their bad luck. These experiences are evidence of a very powerful force. It's called the Law of Attraction, and right now it's attracting people, jobs, situations, and relationships to you. The Law of Attraction can be defined as: I attract to my life whatever I give my attention, energy, and focus to, whether positive or negative.
Having the opportunity to work alongside Michael was truly a lesson in expanding my mind. Pounded into my head was the reminder that what I thought and what I said had a direct impact on what was in my life. I began to see that if I did not intentionally curate each thought, each word, and each action- I would be surrounded by the shrapnel of energies I least desired.
the proof is in the pudding.
I started a new tradition last year. This tradition was that on December 31st, I would write a letter to myself that I would open on the following December 31st. This letter would be a declaration of hopes, dreams, goals, and intentional bullet points of what I would be doing in the year following.
This direct act of putting pen to paper and declaring my unwavering vision for my life created a mental roadmap for myself. This past year I proclaimed I would become one to many. I would use my voice to make an impact on this world. I would speak on stages-even if my knees were knocking and the steady breath of anxiety gripped my brain.
This declaration, my actions, my thoughts, and my words collided with a year that was beyond my wildest expectations. I have graced stages, launched 2 podcasts, and continue to use my voice daily to reach people that need my words to believe in themselves.
Synchronicity, Serendipity, The Law of Attraction, Happenstance, or even Kismit may be responsible for those unexpected circumstances of bliss. Or it may be the intervention of the Universe. What I know to be true is when you truly believe in yourself and share this unabashed confidence with the universe, you are unstoppable.
Thank You Universe. Grateful.
Video Cred goes to my girls, Tia Morell Walden and Mika Altidor- and of course, our buddy- Dragon.
You got this- xo Jules
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